Breakfast Thoughts: Healing Or Coping?

Hanging out with smart women is one of the most enjoyable things for me, and as usual, I had one of the most insightful conversations on trauma when I had breakfast with one of my favorite women over the weekend. I learned pretty early to ‘suck it up and move on’ and so sometimes I…

Connect With Yourself

For the longest time, I had the poorest relationship with myself. I sought external validation while my inner dialogue was critical, harsh and negative. I suffered very badly from the famous “imposter syndrome”. I didn’t even know who I was under all the layers of guilt, expectation, and anxiety I had built up around me. It…

My London – In – Ibadan Love Story

I watched too many Indian movies growing up so I had such lofty expectations about Love. It had to be dreamy. Movie-like. And it was. I say was because I’m not a child anymore so I have more realistic expectations now. I’m an ambivert which means that as much as I can be the life…

My First Blogpost

Hello you! So… This is going to be a ‘straight from the heart no going back to edit’ kind of post. Welcome to my blog which I have christened ‘Moments with Aina’ because everyone seems to think aina.com isn’t cool enough.🙄🙄 I’d pushed off starting this blog for years because I always thought better not…